Governance

“We” is one of the nicest ways to avoid taking personal responsibility.

One of the major barriers to commitment and accountability that I see in organisations is too much “us-ness”. “We” may sound like a cohesive word, but it often hides something else – avoidance of personal responsibility:“We didn’t get it done.”“We should do it.”“We didn’t get it done.”“We have a common purpose.” I very much agree

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Have you ever noticed that people are the same in the training room and different later at work?

From time to time, I hear from HR managers that people in the training room are open, collaborative, genuine, sincere and direct, even deeply caring towards each other. But when you go back to business as usual in the training room, cooperation disappears and is replaced by competition, siloing and cornering. Retrieved from Reelika and

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To move into the future, you first need to move from the past to the present.

This image speaks at first glance of a client-agent relationship. Whether that helper is a therapist, mentor, coach or experience counsellor. But in my view, a manager is also a helper. Perhaps the picture is also about the relationship between the manager and the team member. But since we have not taught anyone to communicate

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How to deal with a psychologically aggressive manager?

The first temptation is to diagnose (e.g. narcissist) a highly egocentric, aggressive and unemotional leader. Diagnosis, however, is generally not so much a question of acceptance of responsibility as of politeness. But in life, many of us come across leaders who run over people, only highlight their own achievements and direct people to admire themselves

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