If leaders were more bored, we’d live in a better world

Sitting on the terrace, sun beating down, no email, no meeting. Just be. And feeling bored.

It is in boredom that new ideas are born. We don’t read emails, we … wood magazines. We don’t plan projects, we notice clouds. And suddenly… an idea comes. A feeling. A new view of ourselves, a new perspective on problems.

If we were more bored… the world would be a more creative place. And more peaceful. And healthier. Maybe if leaders were more bored, we’d live in a better world. That’s exactly what Joan Corbalan said in one of his Systemic Leadership trainings. I very much agree with him! Acting for the sake of acting creates tension, anger and anxiety.

🎨 Children know that boredom is the door to creativity. In our adult brains, that door is stuck behind scrolling and a full calendar. But if you let yourself really do nothing again, that inner life comes back, not over-seeded with someone else’s expectations and full of a sense of not being good enough…

💡 But it’s not just about creativity. Systemic management says: every system needs a void to retune. If we keep filling all the gaps with the pressure of activities and results, there is no space for the new to come in. This is a realisation that many of my clients reach at some point when they start looking for a new one, after a constant struggle.

🧩 Boredom is a “stopover” in the system, where the old meaning is fading but the new has not yet arrived. It is there that vulnerability arises … and also potential. When a leader has no room for boredom, he or she is usually leading his or her subconscious patterns, not people, and it is no longer leadership but unleadership.

💬 Questions for the summer as a leader:
Am I managing people or just keeping the machine running?
Can I create a space where ideas are born… or just results?
Can I tolerate boredom – within myself and my team?

📴 This summer – take a break. But more than that, don’t fill every moment with escaping from yourself with all sorts of summer activities. Let yourself get bored. Because boredom isn’t emptiness – it’s a space where something new starts to come.

Have a boring summer everyone!

  Boredom is a “stopover” in the system, where the old meaning is fading but the new has not yet arrived.