{"id":6765,"date":"2024-12-20T09:43:00","date_gmt":"2024-12-20T07:43:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ivarraav.com\/uncategorized\/what-are-you-prepared-to-give-up-to-get-a-solution\/"},"modified":"2024-12-21T09:48:57","modified_gmt":"2024-12-21T07:48:57","slug":"what-are-you-prepared-to-give-up-to-get-a-solution","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ivarraav.com\/en\/eneseareng-en\/what-are-you-prepared-to-give-up-to-get-a-solution\/","title":{"rendered":"What are you prepared to give up to get a solution?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>If an issue or problem persists, it&#8217;s worth asking yourself: am I going to stick with it? What am I loyal to that is preventing a solution from coming? What am I willing to give up for a solution?  <br\/><br\/>For something to come, something has to go. For example, there is sometimes a need:<br\/>\u2705 to stop complaining and take responsibility<br\/>\u2705 give up an old habit, belief or familiar thought<br\/>\u2705 giving up the need to always be right, perfect, correct.<br\/>\u2705 Give up the need to control<br\/>\u2705 To give up the need to please others and save them.<br\/>\u2705 give up comfort to take the first step<br\/>\u2705 to give up being obscure and become visible<br\/>\u2705 to give up being visible and to distance oneself for a while <br\/><br\/>For example, a few years ago, I made the decision to abandon one of my strong beliefs that &#8220;you have to suffer and solve everything on your own.&#8221; This led me into constant overwork, fatigue and easily irritable, even passive-aggressive because I didn&#8217;t know how to ask for help. <br\/><br\/>When I abandoned that thinking and decided to take responsibility in a different way &#8211; to talk about my limits, ask for support and share responsibility &#8211; I realised how much easier life was and how many more solutions came into my life. How many great people came into my life because of that decision to give up. <br\/><br\/>When you&#8217;re ready to give something up, you give solutions a chance to come into your life. After all, then there&#8217;s an empty space in front of you for the solutions to come. <\/p>\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"800\" height=\"800\" src=\"https:\/\/ivarraav.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/Millest-oled-valmis-loobuma-et-saabuks-lahendus.jpeg\" alt=\"An open door and the text: what are you prepared to give up for a solution?\" class=\"wp-image-6762\" title=\"What are you willing to give up to get a solution?\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ivarraav.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/Millest-oled-valmis-loobuma-et-saabuks-lahendus.jpeg 800w, https:\/\/ivarraav.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/Millest-oled-valmis-loobuma-et-saabuks-lahendus-300x300.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/ivarraav.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/Millest-oled-valmis-loobuma-et-saabuks-lahendus-150x150.jpeg 150w, https:\/\/ivarraav.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/Millest-oled-valmis-loobuma-et-saabuks-lahendus-768x768.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/ivarraav.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/Millest-oled-valmis-loobuma-et-saabuks-lahendus-600x600.jpeg 600w, https:\/\/ivarraav.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/Millest-oled-valmis-loobuma-et-saabuks-lahendus-100x100.jpeg 100w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>If an issue or problem persists, it&#8217;s worth asking yourself: am I going to stick with it? What am I loyal to that is preventing a solution from coming? What am I willing to give up for a solution? For something to come, something has to go. For example, there is sometimes a need:\u2705 to [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"","ast-site-content-layout":"default","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","ast-disable-related-posts":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"default","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"footnotes":""},"categories":[44],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-6765","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-eneseareng-en"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/ivarraav.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6765","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/ivarraav.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/ivarraav.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ivarraav.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ivarraav.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6765"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/ivarraav.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6765\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":6766,"href":"https:\/\/ivarraav.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6765\/revisions\/6766"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/ivarraav.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6765"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ivarraav.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6765"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ivarraav.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6765"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}