{"id":5317,"date":"2021-10-10T09:37:00","date_gmt":"2021-10-10T07:37:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ivarraav.com\/uncategorized\/what-chapter-are-you-in-in-your-life\/"},"modified":"2024-01-29T15:13:20","modified_gmt":"2024-01-29T13:13:20","slug":"what-chapter-are-you-in-in-your-life","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ivarraav.com\/en\/eneseareng-en\/what-chapter-are-you-in-in-your-life\/","title":{"rendered":"What chapter are you in in your life?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Which chapter are you in? In relationships, at work or wherever&#8230; Oh how much I have used the song below lately in my 1-1 work with clients, in advising management teams, not to mention in my own life when I see the same hole over and over again.<\/p>\n\n<p>Same pattern, different people. Same problems, different company. Same problems, different companion or meeting partner. Unfortunately, or fortunately, chapters have to be read in turn in life. There&#8217;s no lift to go up in, just step by step until it&#8217;s uncomfortable enough not to move and only then do you get to chapter 5.<\/p>\n\n<p><strong>Autobiography in chapter five  <\/strong><br\/><strong>P.Nelson<\/strong><\/p>\n\n<p>1. I&#8217;m walking down the street.  <br\/>There is a deep hole in the middle of the road.<br\/>And in I tumble.<br\/>I am lost &#8230; I have no hope.<br\/>It&#8217;s not my fault.<br\/>It takes me an eternity to get out of here.<\/p>\n\n<p>2. I&#8217;m walking down the street.<br\/>There is a deep hole in the middle of the road.<br\/>I pretend I can&#8217;t see.And I fall in again.<br\/>Incredible &#8211; here I am again.<br\/>It&#8217;s not my fault.<br\/>To get out of here, again, takes a long time.<\/p>\n\n<p>3. I&#8217;m walking down the street.<br\/>There is a deep hole in the middle of the road.<br\/>I can see, but I still fall in&#8230; it&#8217;s like a habit!<br\/>My eyes are open now and I know where I am.<br\/>It&#8217;s my own fault and I&#8217;m about to run out.<\/p>\n\n<p>4. I&#8217;m walking down the street.<br\/>There is a deep hole in the middle of the road.<br\/>I&#8217;m going to bypass it.<\/p>\n\n<p>5. I&#8217;m going the other way.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Which chapter are you in? In relationships, at work or wherever&#8230; Oh how much I have used the song below lately in my 1-1 work with clients, in advising management teams, not to mention in my own life when I see the same hole over and over again. Same pattern, different people. 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